BREAKING UP

Probably the most common thing to all the adolescents there is the need to be sure of the allegiance and the loyalty of the friends, but especially of the fiancée or the fiancé. The fear of being betrayed or cheated reflects the emotional vulnerability and his need to be able to trust.

The time and the distance they treat everything ... there are things that however much they explain themselves are not understood, until they are experienced. Almost nobody experiments on foreign head. And these sufferings that one wanted to save them are, finally, for good of the young people, since they make to mature. If you never have problems, you never find out about the reality.

Unlike that many people think, I believe that the fact of falling in love is the most authentic moment of the relation between two persons; it is when they see that all the possibilities are opened before them, it is when they touch the essence and beauty of the love.

The solution is never to hate a person, but to excuse her, although you not his fiancé again. Surely to be with her prepared you for a future relation that is going to come and in the one that you is going to go better.


To extract forward an engagement or a marriage, love, abnegation is needed, sacrifice. When the pride is imposed the sadness is born, and it is then when it weighs the loyalty. There are typical excuses of the infidelity as ' it was an illusion ', ' it was not known what it was doing ', ' then it was not free '... That's why it is necessary to rush neither in the engagement not in the marriage. It is necessary to think the things, and earlier.

sometimes happen that the men want breaking up with a relationship, when some of they feel afraid of love much to someone....

cadavid!! wrote:

In the love I believe that it is necessary to attract towards someone ' and not ' to flee of someone '. It is for this that I am sure that to recover this lost relation or to establish another piece of news it is necessary to try to be positive and attractive, to give him motives so that it loves you, to recover ' that ' that we had to attract her. The routine kills to the love and nobody looks at the beauty when it takes two weeks in house, it is for this for which some persons support very stormy relations with continuos approaches, discussions and alienation. When we are fine with the partner the tension relaxes between both and the attraction happens, there arises then an alienation that can lead to a rupture.

Aleja, I think it's a good opinion about what should have in a relationship.

Considering that in a relation two completely different beings coexist, with tastes and ways of thinking contradictory in some occasions, the tolerance and the comprehension are tools that allow overcoming the difficulties generated by our discrepancies.

As well as a very popular saying says, "Man proposes and woman disposes, " however, is very important in a relationship that the two persons do their part, the two must to share and communicate their feelings, thoughts, problems, dreams, trying to get out of the monotony and providing innovative ideas for better coexistence. In the couple must have a good listen to demonstrate to the beloved person how important is, a communication where each one shows his true self and we could achieve a better knowledge about the other person.

Also, it is equally significant to have space for each one, because as the song says "love without liberty is what a sneeze, " we must never believe us owners of another person, because despite being one in love and to be the complement of other one, are two people with different tastes and ideals, that must have spaces of loneliness.

It´s important to realize that the love of fairy tale, of the prince and princess living happily in their enchanted castle forever, doesn´t exist. Love is a living being that needs to be fed to grow, develop, and evolve.

In the love I believe that it is necessary to attract towards someone ' and not ' to flee of someone '. It is for this that I am sure that to recover this lost relation or to establish another piece of news it is necessary to try to be positive and attractive, to give him motives so that it loves you, to recover ' that ' that we had to attract her. The routine kills to the love and nobody looks at the beauty when it takes two weeks in house, it is for this for which some persons support very stormy relations with continuos approaches, discussions and alienation. When we are fine with the partner the tension relaxes between both and the attraction happens, there arises then an alienation that can lead to a rupture.

the cause for which a relation finish owes to a little or a lot of time that they are together since it is not the quantity but the quality.tambien because they are not understood and this cause many fights

to finish a relation of a lot of time goes at a level of quite big defeat since it is a lot of time to share beautiful, happy and sad moments.
When it is a relation of a high level of depth in general goals are established and a prosperous future is projected together.

I agree when they speak of ending because there is infidelity. All the persons we commit many mistakes, but there are mistakes that nobody forces us to commit. We all when we have a pair who supposes that we must love and to respect especially, know the consequences that it us can bring look for another person, since it is difficult to excuse when one is betrayed. If a person was capable of committing a mistake, in general it returns and it it commits all the times be, and worse even, with the passage of time already it does not have importance for them and custom turns to continue doing it. Because of it when we see that a relation already does not have future it is better to leave the clear things and to stay as friends in order that with the passage of time the things are not seen every time worse and let's end hurting mas one to other one.

Breaking up!! It’s also a topic seen into the youth people!! Each day we hear news where one couple breaks the relationship up and after one of them commits suicide… this is worryingly but these are things that we have to see when we are in a relationship, maybe is to be prepared for breaking up someday…Mind and heart prepared for many things so that can manifest in many ways!

Falling in love is one of the greatest and thing a person can feel. Its wonderful when ecerything is going great, you feel butterflies in your stomach and life is easier to deal with, but not everything can be rainbows and flowers, when love is no longer in the picture by either one of the couple you start to feel sad, depressed and forgotten. Going through a breakupcan last from days of sadness to months of denial.
Theres so many reasons for a couple to breakup like unreconciable differences, boredom and mostly cheating.
There can be ugly or normal breakups like when some couples stay friends or public agressions that are not a good thing to do or presenxe. I feel that a relationship like rihanna and eminems video "i love the way you lie" can be the worst couple and should breakup there is no reason to be in a hurting relationship its better to breakup and not suffer in that type of relationship. To be in love is the best feeling ever and i wish i would never breakup with my guy but if something happens i hope i can deal with the deception and continue with my life.

Mmmm mmm yeah
Do do do do do do do-do
Ohh Yeah

Gotta change my answering machine
Now that I´m alone
Cuz right now it says that we
Can´t come to the phone
And I know it makes no sense
Cuz you walked out the door
But it´s the only way I hear your voice anymore
(it´s ridiculous)
It´s been months
And for some reason I just
(can´t get over us)
And I´m stronger than this
(enough is enough)
No more walkin round
With my head down
I´m so over being blue
Cryin over you

And I´m so sick of love songs
So tired of tears
So done with wishing you were still here
Said I´m so sick of love songs so sad and slow
So why can´t I turn off the radio?

Gotta fix that calender I have
That´s marked July 15th
Because since there´s no more you
There´s no more anniversary
I´m so fed up with my thoughts of you
And your memory
And how every song reminds me
Of what used to be

That´s the reason I´m so sick of love songs
So tired of tears
So done with wishing you were still here
Said I´m so sick of love songs so sad and slow
So why can´t I turn off the radio?

(Leave me alone)
Leave me alone
(Stupid love songs)
Dont make me think about her smile
Or having my first child
I´m letting go
Turning off the radio

Cuz I´m so sick of love songs
So tired of tears
So done with wishing she was still here
Said I´m so sick of love songs so sad and slow
So why can´t I turn off the radio?
(why can´t I turn off the radio?)

Said I´m so sick of love songs
So tired of tears
So done with wishing she was still here
Said I´m so sick of love songs so sad and slow
So why can´t I turn off the radio?
(why can´t I turn off the radio?)

And I´m so sick of love songs
So tired of tears
So done with wishin´ you were still here
Said I´m so sick of love songs so sad and slow
Why can´t I turn off the radio?
(why can´t I turn off the radio?)
Why can´t I turn off the radio?

[quote="dianapala"]

Pablo Neruda is my favorite poet, He wrote this beautiful poem, I love it...

I think about "Love is so short, forgetting is so long”:

The love is so short, because is the most beautiful feeling that a person can feel as the strongest emotion of affection, when the love is not eternal, the people can love fully, thus the love would lose his escencia if it was eternal, because this feeling can be affected by the routine and the time for becomes in indifference.

Forgetting is so long because the man always want to feel loved and does not agree not be loved eternally.

By my friend Pablo Neruda

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Ana María Gómez wrote:

Nati Gaviria wrote:

¿who suffer most? he that wait always, or he that never to anyone waited..

Obviously who suffer is the individual who waits more than he would must. I consider that because when we are breaking up with our couple in fact we are breaking up with ourself. The person who is to our side is like a mirror of us, and the opposite when that person wants to see him representing in us.

The idea of thinking that we are humans who lives only individually without taking into account our status of humans who coexist with others, is an interesting way of make existential conclusions, but, in this case there are another forms to see the life not like a "Rose Color" but in a real perspective, that is living with someone and love him. An Austrian writer said one time: "Two souls with but a single though, two hearts that beat as one" He was called Friedrich Halm. So, when we realized that we have been creating all this time an ideal of us with the other person, we can feel us reflecting in his feelings, thoughts, faults, virtues, dreams and forms to receives some proves that the life is giving to us.

When our half is missed, we are going to feel depressed and sad, but, we should always try to create a hard personality which will help us trust in ourself and in the others too. Knowing who we are, for what we are here, where we go and why. The validate reasons to explain our existence in this world, so, when we will know, everything is gonna be more clear for us, and we are not gonna feel pain for the missing of someone, anybody could be that person.

ana maria i agree with you when you say that broke with a person its like loss half of one self, because one creates a life together, and its not easy leave a past life, because we need of other person, we need that love us.
According to the question of naty i think that suffer more who really love the other, because him or she is going to decepcionate to be aware that this love was not enough

i was seeing videos of my singer favorite and i found one video that says that we should not mourn more, by a person in special, life is too short to suffer for someone who does not value you more.

here I leave the video, the lyrics are wonderful.....

two months ago I finished with my boyfriend and I have not been able to forget me of him, and what most torments me is that always i'm thinking that still I can be with him, and this has become a nightmare really.....